Wednesday, November 28, 2012
God will only give you what you can handle
We're in week 9! I've been absent from the blog for a bit for a few reasons, one is simply I didn't have much to say. Things had really gotten better, more manageable, reasonable, less stressful, less temper tantrums from the boy, hubby was physically tired but actually in good spirits. I really feel like we're in a good spot right now. A few weeks ago we were really having a tough time adjusting (as you probably already read). Hubby was absent much of the week and when he was here he was studying, writting papers, shinning boots or plain exhausted. He had missed a few family/friend functions and missed out on some of our evening dinners which is all new for us. We missed him and he was missing us. I had always heard and some-what believed that "God will never give you more then you can handle" I now know and believe this to be true. I don't consider myself a religious person, I pray daily but am not a every weekend church go-er. Things were REALLY tough for us and with some time and prayer they just got a little easier. He has been home a few nights in time for dinner, he's adjusted to the early mornings and challenging PT so he's not so exhausted anymore. He had a few holiday's this month too which helped for family time and rest. Last night he made it in time to watch our girl sing with her class. So the saying is true- God really will not give you more then you can handle.
Another reason I haven't written in a while was becuase I was also feeling a bit self-involved-creating this blog and felt like I was complaining constantly. I am NOT a complainer nor am I a negative person. So I will be working on staying true to who I am and being positive even in tougher times. My original plan was to create a blog for getting thru the academy and soon-to-be police wifes while also updating family members along the journey too. And I hope it is just that.
Today hubby had what we call a mini-swing shift. He went in at 12:30 pm and will be off at 9:30pm. It was nice because he got to sleep in a little, take our girl to school and have coffee and breakfast with me and our boy. He then took our boy to pre-school and came home to study a bit. It was nice to spend the morning with him. He's continuing to not only pass in all the tests but excel in the class and become one of the leaders the others look up to. Him and a few others have been recognized for their accomplishments and how well they are doing. I'm sure for hubby it's a nice feeling and helps with the mental struggle a bit. I know I am so so proud of him and us.
Friday, November 9, 2012
Things are good
Week 6
End of week 6! The Hubby's attitude is much better, he's been doing some major soul searchin and taking things day by day. I have failed to mention in my other posts that academically he's kickin butt. He hasn't gotten less then a 88% on all tests!!
We're together working on the boy's behavior and I am really putting my foot down and getting him in check. Our girl who I've rarely talked about is an absolute angel. Aside of mornings (she's just like Daddy with the hate for mornings) and some homework times she's been amazing. I often thank her for being so helpful and let her know that she's helping me just by minding and doing what she's told.
Hubby got his duty belt and bullet proof vest this week. I am not sure who was more excited, him or the kids?!? It was really cute to see them so in to daddy and to watch hubby explain what each thing on the belt was for. The boy is just over the moon about daddy being a police officer.
I am so excited for this weekend. I have a baby shower to attend of a very close friend, Hubby and I have a date night planned tomorrow night and Sunday brunch/football with the funniest friends/girls I know to celebrate a bestie birthday! I need this weekend so bad and feel so blessed to have such a wonderful support system around us. I have received many calls, messages, texts offering support and I can't say thank you enough. Hubby and I have the very best friends and family. so THANK YOU, you all know who you are!!!! :)
End of week 6! The Hubby's attitude is much better, he's been doing some major soul searchin and taking things day by day. I have failed to mention in my other posts that academically he's kickin butt. He hasn't gotten less then a 88% on all tests!!
We're together working on the boy's behavior and I am really putting my foot down and getting him in check. Our girl who I've rarely talked about is an absolute angel. Aside of mornings (she's just like Daddy with the hate for mornings) and some homework times she's been amazing. I often thank her for being so helpful and let her know that she's helping me just by minding and doing what she's told.
Hubby got his duty belt and bullet proof vest this week. I am not sure who was more excited, him or the kids?!? It was really cute to see them so in to daddy and to watch hubby explain what each thing on the belt was for. The boy is just over the moon about daddy being a police officer.
I am so excited for this weekend. I have a baby shower to attend of a very close friend, Hubby and I have a date night planned tomorrow night and Sunday brunch/football with the funniest friends/girls I know to celebrate a bestie birthday! I need this weekend so bad and feel so blessed to have such a wonderful support system around us. I have received many calls, messages, texts offering support and I can't say thank you enough. Hubby and I have the very best friends and family. so THANK YOU, you all know who you are!!!! :)
The Wedding...
The night before the wedding the hubby was moaping around a bit and I as gently as possible told him, please, if you are going to be like this at the wedding I'd really just prefer you don't come. (you have to know me to know that this way of talking to the hubby is acceptable. I can be a bit abrupt sometimes and he can handle me) My brother and the family were well aware of his new hours and situation so he kinda had a "pass" to not attend. I, for selfish reasons needed and wanted him there to be with me and for the help with the kids, but would also be ok with him deciding not to attend. BUT I definitely didnt want him there if he was going to be the way he was Monday night. He said no, I'll be there and I'll be fine.
Tuesday night (night of the wedding) he arrives, I am so happy to see him, but right away I know something is not right, he again is a bit down and moapy. He's putting a smile on and being very friendly to the family and is happy to see the kids. I give him a quick hug and go get us a drink. I am having to do a speech so I am a little nervous at this point, not to mention I had just misplaced my keys at the Japanese Tea Garden we were at so the blood pressure was HIGH. All of the family is approaching the hubby with their congrats on the new job and wanting to know how things are going. Every once in a while I am catching him with a blank stare.
The night goes on, kids are having a blast on the dance floor, I make it thru my speech and everyone is having a nice time. Everyone but the hubby. It's clear to me we need to leave. I really want to stay because the kids are having a great time, its wonderful to spend time with family I haven't seen in a while., but it's 10 o clock and he's got to be up very early. I know it's best to leave.
In the hotel room we finally get the kids calmed down and we're in bed. He reaches for my hand and apologizes for his mood. He says that he's had yet another really tough day, mentally. (now turning into a tough week) He's beginning to really think about the dangers he'll be putting himself in front of daily and the fact that he has a family to come home to every night and he's worried the more he sees these dangers the more "robot" he'll become in his life. He feels as if he's being selfish putting the family thru this. The conversation continues for a little while about many different thoughts he's having....
After listening carefully and letting him get it all out. I am a bit speechless. I am shocked that he'd even have a second thought at this "dream" job. I remind him that we are in this TOGETHER and we chose this TOGETHER. I also say that I think he needs to give this a fair chance and complete the academy. He agreed. Then comes our boy, "mommy and daddy I want to sleep with you guys!!" Perfect timing little man, come on in:) They always know how to make you feel a little bit better.
PS: Traveling with the kids wasn't so bad. I had a few stressful moments (when I lost my keys. Then the boy threw a fit in front of my entire family the morning after the wedding over no more SAUSAGE) waahhhhhhh
My outlet
Last May I ran my first half marathon in SF with my cousin and some great friends. I would never normally consider myself a "runner" but a friend approached me with the idea and I thought, hey why not?! I had wanted to get in shape anyway and thought it'd be a great way to start. I/we all trained for 10+ weeks to run our 13.1 miles and boy was it an experiance!! I found however that running was so so good for my mind, my body and my soul. I ended up completing the half marathon in 2 hours and 26 min. I had a goal of a much better time, but hey I completed it! After the half marathon I felt as if I needed something else to continue my fitness journey. Although I had found a new liking to running, I wanted to take my fitness to a new level, I needed something MORE and a new challenge. Another friend of mine was looking amazing and turned me on to Jamie Eason's 12 week Live Fit program at BodyBuilding.com ! I am IN LOVE with this program and all of Jamie's recipes. I have since completed the 12 weeks and then started over recently in the 3rd week to complete the12 again. I am seeing real results and feel amazing. I for the first time in my life enjoy fitness, running, weight training and just being at the gym. I put on my music and just DO IT. It feels amazing. This has been my best outlet for all the stress. I highly recommend it!!
Thursday, November 8, 2012
oh POOP
Fri. Day 26 end of week 4!
Made it an entire month just about! Hubby and I both are working thru the struggles and emotions daily together. Every day brings something new and I never know what to expect when he walks in the door. We're semi getting used to the long hours and change in the household. Our kids, mainly the boy is giving us a lot of trouble right now. Really acting up, throwing fits in public and even pooping his pants (he's not yet in Kindergarten, but too old to be doing this!) I am struggling big time at home with the kids and happy to go to work some days. I am holding it all together- but by a string. I even left $100 CASH in the ATM the other day just walked away from it, like an idiot!! Too many things on my mind and on my plate. To make things more stressful I am preparing to attend my brothers wedding next week. I'll be traveling and going to the wedding with the kids ALONE. Some of you moms(especially Military families) laugh and say- oh please I do it all the time! Well I DO NOT. The hubby and I are a heck of a team- I mean I couldn't have picked a better father for my kids. I count on him so so much for help- he is amazing. AND to make this next week a little bit harder they made him Platoon Leader today for all of next week! At first, I say that's great babe, congrats!! And he says uhhh no, it's going to make for a very hard long week. I am thinking- hasn't it already been a hard very long last 4 weeks?!?!
Right now though I am just happy for the weekend -because he's home with us and all weekend. Sure he'll be studying, working on homework, shinning boots, ironing his uniform for next week, preparing for the Platoon Leader spot but he'll be HOME with us all weekend. We are so happy (me and the kids!)
Made it an entire month just about! Hubby and I both are working thru the struggles and emotions daily together. Every day brings something new and I never know what to expect when he walks in the door. We're semi getting used to the long hours and change in the household. Our kids, mainly the boy is giving us a lot of trouble right now. Really acting up, throwing fits in public and even pooping his pants (he's not yet in Kindergarten, but too old to be doing this!) I am struggling big time at home with the kids and happy to go to work some days. I am holding it all together- but by a string. I even left $100 CASH in the ATM the other day just walked away from it, like an idiot!! Too many things on my mind and on my plate. To make things more stressful I am preparing to attend my brothers wedding next week. I'll be traveling and going to the wedding with the kids ALONE. Some of you moms(especially Military families) laugh and say- oh please I do it all the time! Well I DO NOT. The hubby and I are a heck of a team- I mean I couldn't have picked a better father for my kids. I count on him so so much for help- he is amazing. AND to make this next week a little bit harder they made him Platoon Leader today for all of next week! At first, I say that's great babe, congrats!! And he says uhhh no, it's going to make for a very hard long week. I am thinking- hasn't it already been a hard very long last 4 weeks?!?!
Right now though I am just happy for the weekend -because he's home with us and all weekend. Sure he'll be studying, working on homework, shinning boots, ironing his uniform for next week, preparing for the Platoon Leader spot but he'll be HOME with us all weekend. We are so happy (me and the kids!)
All these emotions...
Day 22 Week 3
The commute and missing out on time with the kids is really getting to the hubby these days. At his other job he was able to get to the gym, pick up the kids and start dinner daily. To keep some routine for the family I make sure dinner is ready to be put on the table when he arrives so that we can sit down as a family for dinner as we always have. No TV, no phones, no homework, just us and our conversations.
I can see something is bothering him right when he walks in tonight though. After we read the nightly stories to the kids and they're in bed we talk. The hubby begins to tell me in detail how hard the day was. And by hard I mean emotionally, viewing crime scenes and learning to write reports from horrible crime scene's. He's visibly shaken and for the first time un-easy about this dream job he thought for so long was meant for him. These new thoughts along with missing the family time is really taking its toll. The emotional roller coaster is beginning. He's the strongest person I know and he's breaking down, what am I supposed to do as his wife?
As always, very positive, I hug and tell him to be strong and focus on the future. One day at a time and I know you can do this babe. I love you. While I, too am un-easy about this new job and our future.....
The commute and missing out on time with the kids is really getting to the hubby these days. At his other job he was able to get to the gym, pick up the kids and start dinner daily. To keep some routine for the family I make sure dinner is ready to be put on the table when he arrives so that we can sit down as a family for dinner as we always have. No TV, no phones, no homework, just us and our conversations.
I can see something is bothering him right when he walks in tonight though. After we read the nightly stories to the kids and they're in bed we talk. The hubby begins to tell me in detail how hard the day was. And by hard I mean emotionally, viewing crime scenes and learning to write reports from horrible crime scene's. He's visibly shaken and for the first time un-easy about this dream job he thought for so long was meant for him. These new thoughts along with missing the family time is really taking its toll. The emotional roller coaster is beginning. He's the strongest person I know and he's breaking down, what am I supposed to do as his wife?
As always, very positive, I hug and tell him to be strong and focus on the future. One day at a time and I know you can do this babe. I love you. While I, too am un-easy about this new job and our future.....
Wednesday, November 7, 2012
"Go Hubby"
Mon. Day 7 Week 2.
I am steppin up my game!! I have pre-cut and ready for crock pot frozen meals in the freezer, dinners planned for the week, lunches made, garbage cans down on garbage day, feeding the dog, payin bills, dealing with Dr and Dentist apt's, mowing the lawn even- I have NEVER mowed a lawn in my life!!! My 7 year old had to teach me! lol
The hubby is doing a bit better thru the PT. The tuna, spinach, all the support and Epsom baths are helping. I have been putting little notes in his lunches daily. One of the guys seen them and said man, are we going to see your wife with a "GO Hubby" sign out here during PT one day?!?" Hubby and I got a good laugh that night just picturing it... YES they just might one day!
I also have put together a list of Monday gifts I'll be giving him every Monday for the next 27 weeks! Each gift is accompanied by a small note-a paragraph or two from me. They can be a bit corny but it's a little something to help him get thru and I will do whatever it takes to support my man! Here are the a few them:
Fake Mustache's (because he has to be clean shaved and I like his facial hair)
Reese's (his fav candy) and the basis of the note was I love you to "pieces"
A mirror for his locker-"I'm quite proud of how far you've come, "take a look at yourself"
Peanut M&M's "I want you to know I am NUTS about you"
Dr Pepper "I soda think you are amazing..."
And I am open to any ideas, I need 27 of these things!!!
I am steppin up my game!! I have pre-cut and ready for crock pot frozen meals in the freezer, dinners planned for the week, lunches made, garbage cans down on garbage day, feeding the dog, payin bills, dealing with Dr and Dentist apt's, mowing the lawn even- I have NEVER mowed a lawn in my life!!! My 7 year old had to teach me! lol
The hubby is doing a bit better thru the PT. The tuna, spinach, all the support and Epsom baths are helping. I have been putting little notes in his lunches daily. One of the guys seen them and said man, are we going to see your wife with a "GO Hubby" sign out here during PT one day?!?" Hubby and I got a good laugh that night just picturing it... YES they just might one day!
I also have put together a list of Monday gifts I'll be giving him every Monday for the next 27 weeks! Each gift is accompanied by a small note-a paragraph or two from me. They can be a bit corny but it's a little something to help him get thru and I will do whatever it takes to support my man! Here are the a few them:
Fake Mustache's (because he has to be clean shaved and I like his facial hair)
Reese's (his fav candy) and the basis of the note was I love you to "pieces"
A mirror for his locker-"I'm quite proud of how far you've come, "take a look at yourself"
Peanut M&M's "I want you to know I am NUTS about you"
Dr Pepper "I soda think you are amazing..."
And I am open to any ideas, I need 27 of these things!!!
Day 3
Wed. Day 3 Week 1
Hubby walks in the door about 7:30PM. Kids are elated to see him! DADDY!!!!!!!
He hugs them and puts a smile on his face but I have never seen him like this before, he's exhausted, hes limping even and no longer happy easy going hubby. PT is kicking his BUTT. As I have mentioned he's in the best shape of his life right now. I am in shock this PT is THAT hard. I even say: "WHAT the heck? Are you protecting the President?!?!" He just laughs at me.
I am scared. I am scrambling at what I can do to help him. I begin callin in the troops! (my friends) What can I do? I ask them... I had many responses. Tuna/protein for lunch, spinich, oatmeal for breakfast, continue to encourage and support him, Epsom salt for baths etc... even phone calls of other police officers were coming in to him and I for encouragement. The support was amazing.
I also started googling how to get thru police academy.. I was looking for ANY help I could get. I did come across a few blogs, which I am so happy for now. Week 1 is the main reason I started this blog. This by far was the hardest thing in a loooong time for us to get thru.
Hubby walks in the door about 7:30PM. Kids are elated to see him! DADDY!!!!!!!
He hugs them and puts a smile on his face but I have never seen him like this before, he's exhausted, hes limping even and no longer happy easy going hubby. PT is kicking his BUTT. As I have mentioned he's in the best shape of his life right now. I am in shock this PT is THAT hard. I even say: "WHAT the heck? Are you protecting the President?!?!" He just laughs at me.
I am scared. I am scrambling at what I can do to help him. I begin callin in the troops! (my friends) What can I do? I ask them... I had many responses. Tuna/protein for lunch, spinich, oatmeal for breakfast, continue to encourage and support him, Epsom salt for baths etc... even phone calls of other police officers were coming in to him and I for encouragement. The support was amazing.
I also started googling how to get thru police academy.. I was looking for ANY help I could get. I did come across a few blogs, which I am so happy for now. Week 1 is the main reason I started this blog. This by far was the hardest thing in a loooong time for us to get thru.
Day 1
Monday, Oct 1st: Day 1 week 1 of 28 weeks!!
Alarm goes off at 5AM. (this for the hubby is incredibly difficult from the get. He is NOT a morning person) I going to assume he's gotten very little sleep, as he did tell me he was a little nervous for his first day. (ummm a little..??!) I am VERY nervous for him!!
I first say, babe- are you up? He says yes. I then say: "Goooood Morning SUNSHINE!!" (which he always replies with a ERRRRRR) again- not a morning person! He peels himself out of bed and begins the day. When he leaves I give him a big hug and wish him good luck. I also ask that he texts me when he's there please.
7AM: I get a text: " I am here babe, have a good day, I love you BBKF"
THE ENTIRE day goes by. He has to leave his phone in the car so no communication whatsoever. (VERY differant for us, as he would regularly stop by my office, call me, text me, meet for lunch...etc)
Approximately 5:45PM, I get a call. An exchuasted, yet still my happy, easy going hubby says he's finally on his way home. I ask how the day was and he says "good, but PT was really hard babe, I am exhausted." I say ok, well get home, drive safe, we'll talk more when you get here....
We have a nice dinner, with the kids all talking about daddy's first day and theirs too and although he's tired, he's still my happy easy going hubby.
We go to bed that night, he falls alseep FIRST which never happens. Our lives are officially changin....
Alarm goes off at 5AM. (this for the hubby is incredibly difficult from the get. He is NOT a morning person) I going to assume he's gotten very little sleep, as he did tell me he was a little nervous for his first day. (ummm a little..??!) I am VERY nervous for him!!
I first say, babe- are you up? He says yes. I then say: "Goooood Morning SUNSHINE!!" (which he always replies with a ERRRRRR) again- not a morning person! He peels himself out of bed and begins the day. When he leaves I give him a big hug and wish him good luck. I also ask that he texts me when he's there please.
7AM: I get a text: " I am here babe, have a good day, I love you BBKF"
THE ENTIRE day goes by. He has to leave his phone in the car so no communication whatsoever. (VERY differant for us, as he would regularly stop by my office, call me, text me, meet for lunch...etc)
Approximately 5:45PM, I get a call. An exchuasted, yet still my happy, easy going hubby says he's finally on his way home. I ask how the day was and he says "good, but PT was really hard babe, I am exhausted." I say ok, well get home, drive safe, we'll talk more when you get here....
We have a nice dinner, with the kids all talking about daddy's first day and theirs too and although he's tired, he's still my happy easy going hubby.
We go to bed that night, he falls alseep FIRST which never happens. Our lives are officially changin....
A trip to the uniform store
The days leading up to hubby's first day of the academy were very exciting for me I wasnt really affraid or nervous at all. (My thought was: he's incredibly smart so the academic part will be easy and he's physically in shape- so all the physical tests will be easy! I dont really after worry until 6 months from now when he goes out on duty!) Everyone around us was so supportive and just as excited as I was. The Friday before his first day him and I took a trip to the city for the day just him and I. On our way though we had to stop at a uniform store to pick up a book that he needed for the academy. I thought nothing of it, just going to a uniform store, not too fun, but hey- I'm supporting him and it's a store- I love shopping! Hey I may even find something I'll need to buy..... YEAH right!!
As I walk into this store I see 3 uniformed officers, a fire chief (also in his uniform), bullet proof vests, police hats, police pants, boots, official looking police jackets, ticket writting book thingys (or whatever they are called) and all of a sudden I am over come with anxiety and really freaked out. This just became VERY REAL. I am going to be a Police Officer's WIFE. WOW.
As I walk into this store I see 3 uniformed officers, a fire chief (also in his uniform), bullet proof vests, police hats, police pants, boots, official looking police jackets, ticket writting book thingys (or whatever they are called) and all of a sudden I am over come with anxiety and really freaked out. This just became VERY REAL. I am going to be a Police Officer's WIFE. WOW.
Timing is EVERYTHING
Let's begin with a little background on me and the hubby...
It all started on my Sweet 16th Birthday. A mutual friend brought the hubby to my party. We began as friends first. Fast forward 15 years: Married, 2 kids, 1 dog, MANY wonderful friends we call family and a HUGE life-changing career later here we are.
Since I can remember the hubby wanted to be in law enforcement. I never did like the idea, however did always know he'd make a really great peace officer some day. Over the last 8 years he made a few attempts at close by agencies never making it much farther than the backgrounds, we found ourselves just going thru life and raising our kids. (and to be honest I was kinda happy he'd moved on from the idea) About 1 year and 4 months ago the hubby approached me once again with "going for his dream". With some hesitation, I agreed to this idea. I myself had made some career changes by choice to be home more with my kids and he supported me every time. I felt as if it was the very least I could do for him in return. With every passing of each step in the long process I began to feel more proud of this man I love so much. As we approached the very last step I began to feel more nervous because I knew he was "in". I just had a feeling. I had to get used to the idea- this is really happening and NOW. I believe timing is EVERYTHING. I know that right now is the time for him to do this, he's physically(in the BEST shape of his life) and mentally ready, him and I are strong as ever, he's ready for a change in his career and he deserves it. We got the official call on Sept 20 they wanted to hire him and put him thru their academy beginning Oct 1st. When he shared the news with me he sounded so calm and not very excited. As I thought about it- of course he's happy and probably very excited, BUT he now would have to give notice at his job he's been at for 12+ years. This job, while not challenging to him at all did provide SO much for us and him over the years.. GREAT benefits, GREAT retirement, GREAT people, close to home, security, room for growth, it was what he knew and they loved him there. They loved him so much that there was a "small" going away luncheon for him on his last day with 50 people in attendance. This was his chance though to make his life-long dream come true FINALLY! And I couldn't be PROUDER of my MAN!
I decided to start this blog for Academy Wife's and obviously going forward I'll begin to write about life as a police wife(even typing it is weird for me) and how we get thru it! I am struggling a bit with a few things and have found comfort in talking to my best friends, family and have begun following other "police wife" blogs. I believe and hope thru my blogging that I can help other wife's/spouses/mom's/dad's/children- whoever get thru this really hard challenging time that we call the police Academy or as the kids call it "Daddy's School".
It all started on my Sweet 16th Birthday. A mutual friend brought the hubby to my party. We began as friends first. Fast forward 15 years: Married, 2 kids, 1 dog, MANY wonderful friends we call family and a HUGE life-changing career later here we are.
Since I can remember the hubby wanted to be in law enforcement. I never did like the idea, however did always know he'd make a really great peace officer some day. Over the last 8 years he made a few attempts at close by agencies never making it much farther than the backgrounds, we found ourselves just going thru life and raising our kids. (and to be honest I was kinda happy he'd moved on from the idea) About 1 year and 4 months ago the hubby approached me once again with "going for his dream". With some hesitation, I agreed to this idea. I myself had made some career changes by choice to be home more with my kids and he supported me every time. I felt as if it was the very least I could do for him in return. With every passing of each step in the long process I began to feel more proud of this man I love so much. As we approached the very last step I began to feel more nervous because I knew he was "in". I just had a feeling. I had to get used to the idea- this is really happening and NOW. I believe timing is EVERYTHING. I know that right now is the time for him to do this, he's physically(in the BEST shape of his life) and mentally ready, him and I are strong as ever, he's ready for a change in his career and he deserves it. We got the official call on Sept 20 they wanted to hire him and put him thru their academy beginning Oct 1st. When he shared the news with me he sounded so calm and not very excited. As I thought about it- of course he's happy and probably very excited, BUT he now would have to give notice at his job he's been at for 12+ years. This job, while not challenging to him at all did provide SO much for us and him over the years.. GREAT benefits, GREAT retirement, GREAT people, close to home, security, room for growth, it was what he knew and they loved him there. They loved him so much that there was a "small" going away luncheon for him on his last day with 50 people in attendance. This was his chance though to make his life-long dream come true FINALLY! And I couldn't be PROUDER of my MAN!
I decided to start this blog for Academy Wife's and obviously going forward I'll begin to write about life as a police wife(even typing it is weird for me) and how we get thru it! I am struggling a bit with a few things and have found comfort in talking to my best friends, family and have begun following other "police wife" blogs. I believe and hope thru my blogging that I can help other wife's/spouses/mom's/dad's/children- whoever get thru this really hard challenging time that we call the police Academy or as the kids call it "Daddy's School".
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